Self-doubt is a shadow that follows so many of us, especially when we’re about to do something courageous. We look at what others are doing and hear that little voice say, “Who am I to do this?” or “Is my idea even needed?” This is a myth we’ve all been sold—that we must be different or “more” to make a difference.
The truth is you are the missing piece.
Your unique blend of experiences, passions, and perspectives is a contribution only you can make. The world is a beautiful, intricate puzzle, and no matter how many other pieces try to fit into your spot, they’ll never be a perfect match. Your purpose is not about striving to be someone else; it’s about acknowledging and accepting the remarkable human being you already are.
We’ve Been Conditioned to Believe that there’s a Secret Formula to Realize Our Dreams.
That we have a missing skill, or a special connection that will magically unlock our potential. This belief keeps us in a cycle of seeking, striving, and self-criticism. We become so focused on finding the “missing piece” that we overlook the one we already have: ourselves.
This constant search for external validation or a perfect plan is not only exhausting but also a form of self-sabotage. It prevents us from taking the very steps that would prove our worth. You might be putting off starting that business, writing that book, or launching that project because you’re waiting for a sign, for more money, for a certification, or for someone else’s approval. You’re waiting to feel “ready.”
Shifting from Seeking to Seeing.
What if you stopped looking for the missing piece and started to see that you are the whole puzzle? What if you entertained the idea that your purpose isn’t something to be found, but something to be expressed? This isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being authentic.
Your Experiences Are Your Superpowers.
Your journey, every twist and turn, has equipped you with a unique set of perspectives. The challenges you’ve overcome, the knowledge you’ve gained, the lessons you’ve learned, and the empathy you’ve developed are your greatest assets. They are the foundation of how you can contribute to positive change and help others.
Think about a time you had a conversation that felt completely natural. That’s your flow, your zone of genius. It’s born from a lifetime of learning and living, and it’s something no one can replicate.
Everyone’s Path is Different, and Everyone’s Contribution is Needed.
Comparison is the thief of joy and the architect of self-doubt. The moment you start measuring your journey against someone else’s highlight reel, you lose sight of your own progress and purpose. Your path is unique, and there are people waiting for that very special solution, only you can deliver. Instead of asking, “Who am I to do this?” start saying, “No one else on the planet can do my thing like I can.”
I am the perfect example to this. There are no shortage of people doing what I do, and many are doing amazing things, but no one will ever do ‘my thing’ in the exact same way I can. The moment I started believing this is when things started to unfold for me.
Your Unique Voice, Your Inner Wisdom, and Your Genuine Heart are Needed.
Your purpose was never about being a carbon copy of someone else’s story. It’s ab out showing up as you are, with all your beautiful imperfections and sharing your gifts, talents, and experiences.
This shift in mindset is where your freedom lies—the freedom to stop striving and start being. It’s the freedom to move from a place of fear to a place of trust. Trust in your abilities, in your worth, and that you are already enough, because you are! So, the next time that little voice of self-doubt creeps in, remind yourself of this very powerful truth: You are not missing a piece. You are the piece. And your journey, your purpose and your impact, begins the moment you believe it.